Monday, June 24, 2013

John 2:4

Jesus answers, “Listen mother, what does all your worrying about wedding wine have to do with me?  Don’t rush me.  My moment is not here yet.” John 2:4 EFP
        
Well, here’s one of the story lines.  It’s about Jesus’ retort to his mom.  I’m not sure about you, but I can’t imagine saying these words to my mom in response to her request for help.  So perhaps I’m missing something.  First he calls her “Woman”!  What was that all about?  I would have lost a couple of teeth before the word ever left my lips.  My mom has a wicked right cross!  Then Jesus follows the opening statement with words to the affect, “What do your tiny concerns have to do with me?  I have bigger fish to fry!  In fact, my moment has not come yet.  Just let me be.”  I am definitely missing something.

Well, yes and no.  Jesus is not being rude or curt with his mother, but he is being firm.  The term “woman” is not a harsh term, rather one of affection and love.  Compare it to the scene in John 19:26.  It does not carry the connotation it denotes today, rather one of respect and deep affection. 

One the other hand his response, “What does this have to do with me?” is also very telling of their relationship. It does appear that Mary is trying to be the catalyst that pushes Jesus into his ministry.  Mary is there all those years since his miraculous birth and childhood.  See sees him develop into a young man and then into an adult—exemplary in every facet of his life.  She knows the reason for his birth: to “save his people.”  She knows he has been baptized recently.  She sees the change in him after his forty day sojourn into the desert. But she does not know the meaning of “save his people.”  She does not understand that although she has been a vessel; she could never be the catalyst.  Jesus is being guided “by the Spirit” (Matthew 4:1).  The Holy Spirit was the One that set the tone, the tenor, and the timing of his ministry.  And so, in his own tender way, he reminds her of that fact.  Which ought to lead me to the question, “Who is the final arbiter in the major decisions of my life?”  “Am I unwavering in my choice to let God lead?”  “Does he not often speak to me through people?” 

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